School Success makes a difference working with child, school staff and family
This story is shared anonymously with the family’s permission.
The first weeks of school during drop off "H" would yell and scream when separated from mom and then shut down after being brought into class. He would not do anything during class and sometimes would resort to hiding or yelling. We had to work on social skills and independence before we could start academics. While he would yell when upset, he was otherwise non verbal at school pointing or shaking his head to answer. He was unable to dress and undress himself, wouldn’t toilet while at school, barely ate and wouldn’t participate in class activities.He was also slower at doing things so often things were done for him by other family members at home. The family agreed to School Success interventions. Working with parents, and school staff we identified barriers.
Working closely with "H", the classroom teacher, instructional assistant and family to do things such as allow him to have a chart for dressing and undressing at home and school, practice putting on a hat and gloves. Having a special spot for his boots with a Batman Logo to find them. Being allowed time to decompress before joining his classmates. Having a sibling walk with him to the bus once he started riding in the afternoon. Were some of the many strategies we tried to help him with independence inching him towards success at school. As he met certain goals we added more. We worked hard and sometimes he would shut down but most times he started making small progress.
At one point, he started saying words responding to our conversations on the way to class. When I would walk him to class each morning, I talked to him and he would smile and listen. Then in class, he started joining in more and eventually started doing more by himself. He now joins the class in most activities and while he still needs academic assistance he is much more independent.
Instead of being dropped off and picked up each day, he proudly walks to the bus with his classmates. At the beginning of the day he walks off the bus into school and always says hello to me before he heads to class now on his own.The family says at home he is singing the songs he learns at school and loves attending school. While the family is still cautious with his illness, they are working towards allowing him to be more independent and they are noticing his growth.
The School Success Liaison working together with the family and school staff progressed this student's growth in a positive way. The family has stated "H" now looks forward to coming to school every morning.
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